attention ministry wives: I want your advice

In 109 days I will marry a pastor.

Last Sunday I worshipped with my wonderful new church family in PA and realized I am woefully unprepared for this major transition. How do I adapt to this new role without losing myself? What’s the best way to manage expectations about my involvement in every activity? When do I share my opinion in a class or planning meeting and when should I stay silent? How can I be present and attentive to each person who wants my attention—and how do I …